Before getting started I suggest you read the Dating Tips I have drafted for the site then click on one of the "Join Now" links and follow the guidelines set forth there. Creating a profile takes only a few minutes and you can always answer "prefer not to say" if a question makes you uncomfortable. The essay questions are optional and you can return to your profile at any time to make changes. Geographic information will be used to find potential matches near you. The E-Mail address you provide will never be revealed to other users. You will become a full member and your profile will begin appearing in search results after being reviewed by the webmaster to insure that the profile abides by the guidelines set forth by NoLongerLonely. It is usually a quite short wait.